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TGPP Transcript: Asexual MAP, Robert

Note: This podcast was transcribed by Robert West. Original audio. Welcome to The Prevention Podcast. I’m your host, Candice Christiansen. Our goal at The Prevention Podcast is to talk about dicey, controversial issues related to preventing sexual abuse. Why? Because it needs to be said. Topics include: the biology of pedophilia; risk, need, and responsivity…

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My greatest fear turned into the source of my greatest joys.

Photo by David Clode on Unsplash I was in my young teens when I started to realise. I denied it. I hoped it would go away. I tried to figure it out so maybe I could change it. I had learned from the media, incorrectly, that “paedophile” and “child molester” were the same thing. Even my…

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Coming to Terms with Being a Paedophile, Over 30 Years Ago

As an early teen in the 1980s, I started to realise I might be different. I pulled the large family dictionary off the shelf and looked up the word “paedophile.” The definition: “child molester.” I went back into denial for a while. I knew I was attracted to little girls. I also knew didn’t want…

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Accidental Adoption

Disclaimer: Be careful. While I did nothing inappropriate, I am lucky I was never accused of such. Your mileage may vary. So far, this is the biggest story of my life. The child in this story is female-to-male transgender and came out as such and transitioned later, but he was always male inside. I thought…

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Caught in their Filters

I spend some time talking to people on Twitter and other places about what it’s like being a non-offending paedophile. Mostly I am trying to reach out to other paedophiles, but I talk to other people too. Sometimes it seems like everything I say is put through a filter. Maybe they think everything I say…

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Keeping Children Safe and Entertained

I recently went to an event and volunteered to help out with their children’s activity room. I did not plan it that way, but I was in put in charge of the room. And I had no helpers. I am an anti-contact paedophile. I have aesthetic and romantic attractions to young children, mostly girls. I…

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Thought Experiment on Paedophilia

So, a little thought experiment. You’re an adult, and you’re only attracted to adults. A curse was placed on you when you were young because of something your parents did. The person who cursed you has died, but the curse is still in effect. You believe there is no way to lift the curse. The…

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